The lessons you can learn from inspiring people for me aren’t really about specifics, simply about what is a good life.
Not for them, but for me – a life I’m proud of.
The gift of being around inspiring people Read More »
My new book is out today on Amazon, but what use is it?
What can it do for you?
Why would you read it?
Why Should You Read This Book? Read More »
OKAY, so it’s ME that’s excited. My new book is coming out very soon.
Get the low-down here, and register for the free book release webinar with myself and one of my heroes.
What’s so exciting? Read More »
When unexpected or unwelcome things come, what do you do? Is it a life-changing disaster, or something less dramatic?
It all depends on whether you have nurtured both aspects of your life, or just one of them. Get this right, and everything will make sense.
Ever Lost 4 Billion Euros? Read More »
Have you ever postponed and delayed something?
Like that conversation that needs to happen?
or that email you need to send?
or putting your hand up to ask that question?
or starting that new project?
or learning a new skill?
or starting that new diet/exercise regime?
With so many things you convince yourself that now isn’t the right moment, not yet. Wait and see, first … right?
Are You Ready For This? Read More »
Do you ever have mornings when things don’t seem to go your way?
Everything happens wrong and so you’re on the back-foot already, frazzled, wound up and you haven’t even left the house?
This morning was just like that for me.
Ever Have One of Those Mornings? Read More »
Life is determined by a your attitude to it. Not by the things that happen, but your attitude to the things that happen.
This is a fundamental law of life, one that we’re really not taught, or taught that well because so few people actually truly live from a hugely positive attitude.
But it’s a choice which changes everything.
Why do you complain, about anything? Read More »
I don’t know anyone who isn’t afraid of anything. And if they say they aren’t, then well, they are either enlightened, or lying. There is a difference, of course, between being lost in fear, and feeling fear, “but doing it anyway.”
The fact is fear is a huge and unwelcome part of many people’s lives. Mine too.
Or it used to be.
Fear and your humanity Read More »
That voice, the one that beats you down. The voice of criticism, doubt, out-and-out violence. The one that means you waste so much time revisiting and rehashing so much.
If you’re anything like me, if you could you would cut it out. Trouble is … you can’t. A big part of your mission here on earth is to come to terms with the voice.
The voice may never go away, but the great news is: It doesn’t need to.
Being free from the inner voice of over-the-top criticism Read More »
I’m not a big fan of the words “mentally strong.”
Mental strength or toughness can seem like brutishness, and pushing, and force, a lack of sensitivity, and other such things … or at least that’s what I tried to be when I thought of it.
Instead, I’ve come to realise – to steal from the Chinese philosophers – you want to be like water.
I don’t like being “mentally strong” but here’s a list, anyway Read More »